i walk the line

Had a horrible quarrel with mom last night. I don't think things will ever be fine between us. I never really worried about her till about a few years ago. And suddenly, she takes up most of attention - what she does and what she doesn't, what she says when she is angry and what she says when she is crying.
She isn't the only 'difficult' person I know. By difficult I mean someone who won't ask for help.
Who will drag everybody down becuase of some martyr complex.